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Gender stereotypes – Not again!

November 14, 2021 by Valarie Budayr

Guest post by Lisa Wee

No matter which part of the world you’re from, you’d have been told how to behave like a boy or a girl from a very young age.

At the age of 5, I got my first dungaree. I wore it whenever I could because of the sense of comfort and freedom it gave me. It gave me the opportunity to track through mud, run, and climb trees with my brothers.

Then a new world started to appear around me. “Don’t be so tomboy, Lisa.” As a 5-year-old, I didn’t understand the word but I could sense the disapproval that went with it in the odd looks exchanged between the adults.

That was my first encounter with gender stereotyping. As I grew older, I continued to hear statements like Boys are tough and girls are pretty. They confused me. It was as if being a boy is better than being a girl. A boy must be more intelligent and capable than a girl since his activities are highly regarded and described as being adventurous, having ambition, and showing leadership, whereas girls are sentimental, submissive, and must be pretty.

These stereotypes can cause unequal and unfair treatment toward a girl or a boy – because they don’t allow people to fully express their uniqueness as individuals.

They can be harmful because they create an illusion that girls are emotional – hence, the drama queen. Boys are tough therefore they don’t have emotions. Aggressive behavior in boys and a more docile manner in girls are encouraged as the norm.

Breaking down gender stereotypes allows everyone to be their best selves. It is because there is no “right” way to be a boy or a girl.

Remember, we are role models for our kids. Shared domestic responsibilities between women and men in our home help our kids, not to gender-type activities.

Promoting successful women in male-dominant jobs such as scientists or successful men in a female dominant job like nursing will create a positive and inclusive society.

Childhood should be about discovery and diversity. Kids should explore who they are without being judged.

This is one of the reasons why I wrote “Li Na is my name”, debuting in March 2022 under a UK publisher, Dixi Books. I wanted to add a voice to kids who are on the journey of discovering that being different is a good thing. They can be brave to be themselves.

Bio

Lisa Wee, a debut author/Illustrator writes quirky, quaint, and sassy stories including “Li Na is my name.”

Her characters are sharp-witted and daring. Many of them have a mind of their own and are not afraid to speak up. In real-life, Lisa is afraid of snakes, cockroaches, and looking under her bed at night. (P.S. Monster alert!). When she is not writing, she is having fun illustrating. Lisa is best known for her unique, unconventional, and vibrant illustrations with a key focus on inclusivity and diversity. Her clients are Ladybug, Babybug and Mighty Kind magazine, World Vision, and amazing authors like Pamela Jane.
Connect with Lisa via her website, Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram.

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